Renee Mayne

If the transformation only works on retreat… what happens when you come home?

You know the cycle.

You go away.

You breathe.
You reconnect.
You remember who the f**k you are.

You feel clear, powerful, hopeful, unstoppable.

THIS is me. This time everything changes.

Then you come home.

Kids.
Work.
Partner.
Bills.
Responsibilities.
Triggers.
Tuesday f**king afternoon. 😂

And a few weeks later, the woman you found on retreat feels miles away again.

So you book another retreat.

Another course.

Another experience that helps you get back to her.

There’s nothing wrong with retreats. They can be beautiful, powerful, life-changing experiences.

But for me, the transformation that matters most has to survive real life.

Because anyone can feel unstoppable in an environment designed to help them feel unstoppable.

The deeper work is learning how to stay connected to yourself when life gets messy.

When you’re triggered.

When you’re tired.

When someone disappoints you.

When the old pattern comes knocking.

When nobody is there reminding you who you said you wanted to become.

That’s where self-trust, nervous system capacity and embodiment stop being personal-development concepts and become something you can actually LIVE.

I don’t want to help women create lives they constantly need to escape from to feel alive.

I want to help them build the capacity to hold their own soul in the middle of their actual f**king life.

Imperfect.

Messy.

Real.

And still theirs.

If you’re tired of having breakthroughs that disappear the minute real life starts lifing again, maybe it’s time to try something different.

I have a couple of spaces for private mentoring.

Message me PRIVATE and we can chat. x

Mate. We need to talk.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do isn’t transcend your reality.

It’s meet it.

What are you actually feeling?

What keeps repeating?

Where are you reaching your nervous system capacity?

What are you pretending doesn’t bother you?

What is your body trying to tell you that your positive thinking keeps talking over?

Because real embodiment isn’t convincing yourself you’re abundant when every cell in your body is screaming otherwise.

It’s meeting yourself where you actually are and expanding your capacity from there.

Slowly.

Honestly.

Microscopically if necessary.

Maybe you don’t need another identity.

Maybe you need such a deep connection to yourself that you can stop trying to escape your humanity in the name of spirituality.

The shadows.

The discomfort.

The pleasure.

The grief.

The joy.

The messy, magnificent realness of being f**king alive.

I don’t believe our humanity takes us further away from divinity.

I think going all the way into it brings us closer.

That’s the kind of spirituality I’m interested in. 🖤

You’re not “TOO MASCULINE”
You’re not even “in” your masculine,

What’s happened is you’ve found a label and a scapegoat to avoid what’s really going on.

There is no set of rules to follow here,
No set behaviour and actions that make us more feminine or masculine,
What we are doing is enabling and reinforcing a gender gap of inequality,

No one wins here.
A man isn’t made, designed or defined by roles and responsibilities,
Nor is a woman.

Toxic masculinity cannot and doesn’t exist unless we address toxic femininity,
Does either really exist, or have they been manufactured to keep us indoctrinated into a set of standards that is impossible to live up to…

Not without sacrificing emotions, needs, desires, balance and wholeness.

What does “too masculine" or “I’m in my masculine” even mean?
You’re tired of trying to be in control,
You’re tired of feeling like the one who has to make decisions?

You’re curious about what it would feel like to let go of the reins and have someone else be in charge?
What is it for you?
Is it softness you’re craving?

Is it a chance to melt into a smoulder where you burn slow…
Dissect what it is you’re actually needing, because just “being in your feminine” is not helpful at all, not to mention completely inaccurate.

A woman was NEVER made to be “in her feminine”

A man was never made to be “in his masculine”

So this entire narrative is actually redundant.

We were all born with certain qualities and natural tendencies that lean in different ways, and what ge****ls we have has absolutely nothing to do with it.

All it does is put unnecessary strain on relationships,

Pressure to be someone we’re not and were never wired to be,

If you can’t trust yourself as you are,

Can you trust that divinity made you exactly as you were meant to be?

With all the unique qualities and magick you needed to be you?

What happens when you stop fighting yourself?

Just because it’s true, doesn’t mean it’s useful.

You want to blame the system, fine… but it just keeps you reliant on it.
You want to blame the government, that’s cool… but you’r energy is more useful else where.
You want to pretend you’re not hurt and mad by someone else… OK… but that is draining you of life force.
You want to fixate on other people agenda and big brother, totally cool… but imagine that time, emotional and mental output was devoted to becoming wildly turned on by your life.
Being so deeply connected to self that it oozed out of you and into every person who enters your world.
Every relationship.
Every cell of your body.
Every thing you touched…

OMG *drool

Our life force is our most precious resource and what we choose to focus on matters,
Am I doing everything I can, within my power to be so in integrity and congruent with what I believe in and how I want to live…
Are my vitals humming with absolute juiced up love…
Fixate on that and let it all unfold form there,

Somewhere along the way, women became incredibly good at settling.

Settling for work that drains them.

Relationships that no longer fit.

Success that looks right but feels wrong.

Lives they're constantly managing rather than genuinely living.

Not because they're weak.

Because they're f**king capable.

Because they adapt.

They make it work.
They find a way.
They tell themselves...

It’s fine.
It’s not that bad.

I should be grateful.
Other people have it worse.

And slowly, “fine” becomes a life.

My work often begins the moment a woman decides...

It’s not f**king fine anymore.

So here are three places I’d look if something feels off, but you can’t quite put your finger on why:

1. What have you normalised that you’re actually tolerating?
The thing you complain about, work around, accommodate or quietly resent.

2. Where are you saying “it’s fine” when your body is saying something very different?
Pay attention to the sigh. The contraction. The dread. The f**k, not this again.

3. What would you choose differently if you stopped needing your current life to make sense?
Not blow it all up.
Not move to Bali and marry your breathwork facilitator.
Just tell yourself the f**king truth.

Because sometimes the first step towards a life you're wildly turned on by isn't knowing exactly what you want.

It's finally admitting what you're no longer willing to settle for.

And if you’re at that point where you know “this isn’t f**king it”, but you don’t know what comes next...

That’s exactly the kind of work I do privately.

I have my final private mentoring spaces for the year.

Message me PRIVATE and let's chat. x