Daniel Martha Ojo

The struggle is real, jumping up and down on vehicles every day, the stress of hooping on vehicles almost made yours sincerely fainted yesterday, it has been so stressful if I may say God come to my rescue😭

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Spinster. Not Every Good Man Is Good for You.
Before I met Mr. right there was someone else.
A young lawyer, wealthy, handsome, and loving in his own way.
He came with a serious marriage proposal.
He had a tragic past lost his wife after 1 month of marriage.
My heart broke for him and I genuinely respected his journey. We were at the stage of talking, trying to know each other.
But beyond the pain he carried, I noticed something deeper.
He had this "I want to marry you to better your life" kind of attitude.
As though I should be grateful.
As though his money was a favor, and his presence, a gift.
He was a giver yes.
He wanted to spoil me yes.
He was generous, no doubt.
But every act of kindness came with an air of superiority and pride .
You could feel the control laced behind the compassion.
One day, we went on a date.
A good friend of mine someone he didn't know walked up to say hello.
This man embar rassed him publicly.
No respect, no restraint.
And in that moment, something in me screamed:
Run, little Ms. Run.
You see, money is sweet but peace is sweeter.
And the way I'm wired, no matter how much you have, if you don't know how to treat people you're poor to me. I didn't want to go from frying pan to fire.
So I told him the truth, We can't marry.
From that day, I stopped collecting a dime from him.
I cut all ties respectfully but completely.
To some people, it didn't make sense.
"Why let go of such a man like that?"
"Isn't he young, rich, and ready for marriage?"
But what they didn't understand is this:
I don't want a provider. I want a partner.
I'm not hungry for money I'm hungry for peace, love, and safety.
I can buy things for myself, but the things I need the most can't be bought.

Here's the lesson, Desperation can blind you into marrying a monster in disguise.
If you don't know who you are, you'll think love means tolerating disrespect.

Marriage isn't compensation for your past pain it's supposed to be a reward for your growth.
If peace isn't part of the package, it's not worth unwrapping.
Never stay where you're only tolerated.
And never marry someone who sees you as a project to fix, instead of a person to love. Follow my page for more interesting stories. I’m a seller of jinja that rises all fallen heroes.

Hustle make you get money, anybody fit disrespect you if shishi no gum you 😭.

Watch your thoughts, your actions depend on it.

Happy Sunday guys

Have you bought something very expensive and later see that exact thing cheaper somewhere before?

Market heart break is real, where we were living before beans we were buying very cheap as at November, December and January has turned to hot cake, so we decided to shift from where we were to another side because of the beans that’s now very expensive there.

I said it would be nice to buy this Ghana must go bag for packing of loads, omo na so this Aboki told me the strong one is 5k last the light one which is yellow is #2500 last, after begging him so much he agreed #4500 then I paid him, we both parted, just for me to go further and see exactly the size of the bag I begged before I was given #4500 for #2500. What a heart break that I got.

Some years ago people never took content creation seriously. To those creating contents then, people felt they were letting out too much information to the public. Some people even went as far as calling people who were active online cringe. I remember someone saying myself was always posting on faceb00k that don't I have work? This is 2026, and people who criticized so many people are now online creating the same content they criticized people for. See, I discovered early in life that most people advise you not from a place of love but for their selfish interest. Hence I developed thick skin early so words do not really get to me unless I allow it. Discouragement has always been louder than support, so what do you do?
You channel your energy towards making a name for yourself. I would have just stopped doing what I love to, which is writing, (basically I express myself through writing since I’m not the talking type) because of what people have to say.
But I didn't. I kept moving and I have reached million of people and connected with amazing people.
See, no one should discourage you from doing what you love doing, if no one is clapping for you please my dear clap for yourself and keep keeping on your head high, evidence Dey🤣