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Non shall lack her mate

Part 3 (continuation)

How do you locate your partner
That a man or woman is born again and heavenly bound can be easily picked physically by their service to God in his vineyard,showing forth the gift of the spirit,the word of God coming from you naturally,sow me your friend and i will tell you who you are.
You locate your divine partner mostly through his vineyard as true sons and daughter,at church programmes,organised singles seminar,in your local assembly,at combined services,through your Pastors,Deacons ,other Leaders in the service of God who have studied and watch you over time and could vouch through the other party from members theyve been in ministry with over time as Church leaders and representative.
It takes one todiscover the other.

Packaged lifestyle are quickly exposed
Through the Holy Spirit,you are well guided on the right questions to ask a would be partner,you can not explain the salvation experience and experiences as a new born again if you are not trully one yourself,get more in the book by these authur " Choosing the right partner Gods way...

5th Nugget
After doing due dilligence yourself and praying through at your spiritual level,you must get the input of your Pastor who must agree with you in your marriage prayer journey, for confirmation for you to proceed or not in this forever Gods will race,then you should again get a nod of a true prophet who are Gods mouthspeak, do not be too much in a hurry not to be misled by the enemy,for satan himself appears as an angel of light.

Gods will may bring surprises you may not understand until later when the usefulness in fulfilling your visions,purpose,and particular calling in life will start manufesting,complimenting each other for Gods divine purpose for your creation manifestation once you do it right by only His standard.Obedience will further enhance your goals,aspirations,and your inbuilt gifts for the work you were originally created for...

Be careful not to marry using these traits:

Beauty,Handsomeness,status in the society
All these last just for couple of years,beauty fades,lust of the flesh rebuffs in a short while,and even wealth develps wings and it flies away,status also changes in time but look at character,fear of the Lord,and the eternal place of rest where ones to rest...

Physical possession,Fame,Money
Statistics over time have shown that a woman costantly beaten up,assulted, dehumanised,lacking companionship yet sorrounded by wealth hates herself but shes always in smiles do decieve others who still crave for such lifestyles,still bent on getting this same lifestyle,do not learn from your own mistake...

A believer marrying an unbeliever saying " I will change him/ her", a woman does not have a specific religion is a disaster waiting to manifest in marriage,once inside marriage,you wont be able to change the Man again since he becomes your head from whom you take instructions and must obey....

When your dating and courtship is without any grouse : Do not be fooled by a Ladies perfect charm,always saying the right things to say,never angry,nor a Guys gentleness,taking all you throw at him,that is whats called " packaging", the part B and true picture you can only see when the dotted line is signed, many not mature enough that doesn't understand the real nature and differences of both parties of a Man and a Woman at this point, before six months inside marriage,throw in the towel...

In conclusion,there is a trap of the enemy today where you are thought to write out what you want in a partner and what you want to see in that partner, now begin to tell God to stamp it in prayer as His will for your life, do not ever make that mistake, that is your own permissive will, by going that road you are saying God should remove His hand from your marriage to stamp and give the go ahead to your own will.( See a full example and deep revelation about this in " Choosing partner comparable to you Gods way" on sale.

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Continuation

Non shall lack her mate (2)

He has given all the opportunity to come drink the water of life ( The Holy Spirit/ that stays to be our guide forever) that also seals us till the day of redemption,therefore,he chastens us whenever we go astray for our good lest the enemies of God may not blaspheme his Holy name, who can think King David with his genuine love and fear of God ,can be involved in that adultery saga with Basheeba,yet he was pardoned but he surfered greatly for that great mistake, and was completely forgiven,so are most of us inside marriage,once we accept our sin and repent,when we go astray just as the prodigal son, not remembring his fathers immence love for him, went astray ,but by His grace too, later reconciled back to his father, do not linger out there where you are open to attack and demonic inhabitation, lest Jesus Christ treat you as a dog that is not worthy of the sons food, give your totality to your maker in marriage to recieve of Him the best having given Him your all...

3rd. Nugget:
How do you locate your divine partner?
Getting ones divine partner Gods way has never changed,for His son/ daughter,the first rule is Deut.7v3 you must not mix with an unbeliever,remember King Solomon love for God but when he started marrying Ladies from outside Gods camp,his mind was swayed to worshipping one idol or the other in a bid to satisfy them,so his heart was no longer loyal to the only true God,thetefore,a beluever must marry only a believer...
2) He s/he must marriage among children of God in holiness and fear of the Lird( the bed must not be defiled (Heb.13v4), and the partner must be proofed to be in truth in serving in His vineyard,filled with the Holy Spirit,the word of God saturated,gift of the spirit evident,and must be heavily focussed...

To be concluded....

Non shall lack her mate

If only you can key into Gods promises for your life, you would not allow fear to torment you, if it's only one of His numerous promises you can stand on and believe, it will come to pass for your marriage according to as He had promised.

One very important factor for you to live in faith and not fear is to fully trust in Him, he that must receive something from God must believe He is,and a rewarder of those who trust in Him, even above what you have asked, for He has good thought towards you, to give you an expected end of Joy, peace, and a fulfilled destiny, but woe to those that are just pretenders, coming to ask things of Him but there heart is far from Him, having already concluded what they must do in their heart, He knows, for those, He will not answer.

God knows our heart desires and those that truly loves Him and ready to do His will in marriage," "I know my sheep,and my sheep knows me" right from the womb, Jacob I love,and Esau I hate, before we were born, God knows who we are, therefore, we need Him to navigate the storms of life, having promised us that, "I would guide you with my eye, and show you the direction you should go", having extended His hand to us, it will no longer be because His hand is short, but we have hardened our heart in pretence following the standard of men and eartly philosophies which mostly result in sorror, doing what we want, where we get wrong result to blame ourself later...

God knows you will surely get married and has put so many things in place to fulfill you,but they are gems that you must find out and use dilligently,if you are true and wants His will in truth,you will know that the enemy is out to make sure you derail or marry the wrong partner so that Gods purpose for you will not be fulfilled( John.10v10b).

Marriage Success Nuggets

He made you and so knows all the things that will fulfill you,it's for you to decide if you will accept His plan for you sincerely and make Him your trust and only foundation ( see Ps.11v3 & Prov.3 v 5-6)...

To be concluded....