Singles, Sex and Spouses

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Singles, S*x and Spouses
Efosa Godsown Matthew

📌 Friday 29th May, 2026
SSNS Weekend Reflection
Sometimes, the greatest relationship mistake is not choosing the wrong person…
It is refusing to heal from past hurts before entering a new relationship.

Broken emotions can damage good relationships.

Healing is important.
Don’t carry yesterday’s pain into tomorrow’s future.

A healthy relationship begins with a healthy heart.

SSNS Family,
What hurts relationships more?
A. Past experiences
B. Poor communication
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— Pastor Matthew Godsown Efosa
Convener – Singles, S*xes and Spouses (SSNS)

My parents never slept in separate rooms🤔




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Singles, S*x and Spouses

*📖 SSNS Lesson*
A man asked, “What keeps marriage strong?”
An elderly woman replied:
“Patience and forgiveness.”

— Pastor Matthew Godsown Efosa

𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏


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𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏


𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏