Jalyka

Read! A book may not change your life but it will change your MIND. 🔑 and a mindset shift can move YOU to change your life.

I feel like Self-Help books get a bad rap nowadays because people expect for a book to change their life but simply having knowledge is NOT power.
APPLIED knowledge IS power & that’s how you gain true WISDOM. Here’s a small list of my favorite
Short Easy Reads:
As a Man Thinketh - James Allen
Running with the Giants - John C Maxwell
The Alchemist - Paulo Coehlo
Richest Man in Babylon - George S. Clason
The Angel Inside - Chris Widener

There’s no excuse!! Reading is excercise for your brain amidst a world of constant brainrot. This is not even an ad but I love Audible & if you don’t have time to sit down and read (which I know is luxury in itself). Listen to audiobooks while you multitask. Some of these books are 2 or 3 hours on audible. You spend that on scrolling already or a movie or tv show. Enrich your minds & open your eyes. Let’s become better humans.

It’s like the clam shell off of SpongeBob! Haha 😅.. idk I found this in my videos 🤷🏽‍♀️

Do you guys think I’m the rizzler? Lol I love flirting with my man 🩵

Long distance sucks! 🥺 I mean.. I know it’s all for a reason but.. I just miss my baby.

Man Down — Rihanna 💎

Sadeeeee is elegance ✨

You know it used to hurt me that so many people would make me feel inadequate to be with Joshua.. but now I laugh at them 🤣 boy..
1. I know who I am & the relationship I’ve been cultivating with Christ long before I ever met Joshua.

2. I didn’t want to admit this for a long time but Envy is a poisonous thing in the hearts of some people!! I can’t ignore the fact that hundreds of thousands of women saw Joshua as the perfect man of God and thought that performative holiness and righteousness would someday make him turn their way.. only for him to choose someone unlikely.. someone not conventionally fitting the outward appearance of what a church girl looks like. And I was quiet on this subject because I didn’t want to make anyone feel targeted but I was the one being bullied and gossiped about! Light needs to be shed on women that look holy but have hardened hearts.

3. Just because my walk doesn’t look like what they’ve seen before or doesn’t fit into a mold of what they like, doesn’t mean it’s incorrect or not what God is telling me to do. And you know an important lesson I’ve learned? People are not God. But I do know this. Who I am plays an important role in the kingdom. I want women who are like me to be able to see themselves in me. I felt underrepresented so I thought maybe I should fit into the mold of what already was. But no, I was gifted influence so that I can be the one who shows up as myself to give those who see themselves in me the courage to walk boldly hand in hand with Christ.

Lastly, I’m not perfect but I’m NOT done growing. Truthfully I never will be. I have an appreciation for who I am NOW so that when I look back, God can get the glory for how He’s transformed me.
So if you get anything from this; show up as who you are TODAY. Not as who the world or society THINKS you should be but courageously as who God has called you to be. 🙏🏽

I love y’all so much, I’ve decided to listen to the overwhelming abundance of support lately rather than focusing on the hate/negativity and I am so grateful for everyone along for the journey 🩵 I can’t wait to show you all who I am… intellectually & spiritually

Our Love Language is being cringe together 😁💛 lmboooo but no you guys, can you believe my brother’s girlfriend HAND MADE this CUSTOM gown for me 🥹🥹 omg it was perfect and exactly what I wanted!! Thank you so much Rea U’phea Couture 🫂 you’re the best!

wearing his favorite color 💙🤗😇