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When you stand by and watch a friend behave badly towards other women, I can assure you that sooner or later they will play in your face, too! Women who gaslight, abuse and have narcissistic behaviors need to be lovingly dealt with even if that means protecting yourself and walking away. I personally have had to do this several times, unfortunately.

It’s time to reevaluate your friendships! Are you trauma bonding? Are you stuck in survival mode? Or, are you and your friends expanding?

We counted down 20 questions to get you “unstuck”. You can start here and work your way to Day 20. It’s a great segue to a new start. Each day will ask a question that will invite you to focus on yourself, who you are being and what habits you have, etc. I promise you getting to where you want to be is a lot easier than you think. You can take the long road or you can come with me and get these life strategies that I offer women.

I mean this in the best way possible. Manage yourself, friend. Manage your reactions, manage your emotions, figure out why you are doing what you do to make that person respond the way they did. And, stop expecting people to come to your emotional rescue. Your thoughts and actions put you there, so use those same thoughts and actions to get you out of there. Respectfully.

Change your mind, change your reality.

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Releasing old patterns are as easy as saying “I’m no longer doing ___”. But if you haven’t thought about what you want to replace that with or thought about your ability to welcome in something new, you could become stuck.

TGIF!
For real, the gratitude is real. I’m grateful for my contribution. Healers come in a variety of ways. I was told in a reading that I would be teacher. That I should teach people. At the time, I was thinking that’s not going to be enough money. I later have learned that your destiny is led by the intention of your heart and the clarity of your thoughts. You can’t put a price tag on that. My wealth is limitless and ever flowing.

I liberate women from their internal shackles so that they can be prepared to take on the world.

Here is how cooperative economics works! My sister leaned into me and another woman that she loves and I poured back into another. It was intentional.

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This question is great for all of you perfectionist out there! My mother was the most popular person I knew growing up. Everyone sought her out for advise, a listening ear or a good laugh. She was a nurturer. She was also the most unorganized, letting life unfold, not sweating the small stuff woman I knew. She was so imperfect and happy! Her joy was the one thing that drew so many towards her. She never tried to control. She just never doubted. Whatever didn’t work on a given day, she believed would work on the next day or the next. And, it usually did.

I want you to lean into the idea of just letting the Universe do what it will. Be an observer of God’s perfection instead of always being in the driver’s seat.

Most of us are doing busy work without intention. For each thing you do today create an intention. This a is good way to bringing mindfulness into your everyday life. Creating a list that serves your goals. Do 2-3 things daily that move you closer to where you want to be. .