The Present Parents

Men who have healed their wounds don’t have to perform for other men or have to coerce women. Healthy masculinity is hot, contagious and so magnetic. Men are so hungry to be masculine but are often settling for gimmicks because they’ve never really seen it in action.

Men are often performing masculinity for other men, the problem is their idea of masculinity is harm and dominance and violence rather than actual power protection and integrity.

The ketamine and what many people don’t know about what this means for her - part one. Jane Doe.

“Jane Doe took the drugs willingly.”

Trump calls for Justice for Jane Doe?

Feeling used in the way men can often relate to can make it really hard to understand the level of feeling used most women instantly can. We want and need men to join this conversation. To ask questions. To think through it. We need to have hard conversations that’s how we get to understanding. **e

Hi Jane, I hope this gets to you. You are changing the world. Your legacy is that the world is safer. That our sons become safe, and can take action. That our daughters can go to school and learn. We believe you. Thank you for fighting this fight. We are honored to fight with you.

This isn’t the case for every person who expresses this sentiment, but there’s a certain portion of men who is is true for. Not recognizing fawning because they are not really being safe and then confusing it with consent. This is why many men think she just regretted it and changed her story later.

Not all r**e is violent. Often it isn’t. Becoming a safe sexual partner means making sure you have enthusiastic consent throughout the entire interaction. **e

Finding toe Cornell case triggering because of your own abuse? But yours happened with someone close to you? Maybe the people you told didn’t believe you.