Judith Onyinye Obinna

One of the reasons i always encourage us to share our experiences with the family planning methods we are using is so that those women that are scared of family planning because of what they heard could hear from women that have experienced it themselves. Some women that shared got to find out that they were using methods that could possibly stop them from conceiving again, unknowingly to them. So, when i say you should share, flood the comment section with your experiences, both the good and not so nice ones. Tell us about yours, even if it's water you drink to avoid pregnancy 😁

I know someone that did family planning and wasn’t able to conceive again.

Really? What is the name of the particular family planning that stopped her from conceiving again?

I don’t know, but all i know is that family planning is not good.

You see the way ignorance works?

Endeavour to ask the name of the family planning when you hear such stories.

Also, ask if the doctor confirmed that the family planning was the issue.

Inability to conceive after family planning could be as a result of infection, tube blockage, low sp£rm count from the husband and other factors that has nothing to do with the family planning.

But because you know that you once did family planning, you zero your mind to finding the root of the problem 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m not saying that some particular family planning methods can’t delay conception when you stop using it.

That’s why i would always list all of them and warn you against specific ones if you’re not done giving birth.

But many of my gender get their own medical advice regarding family planning from hair saloon gossip 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️

They don’t care about the possible consequences of getting that 3 months injections from backyard chemist shop

When they finally start struggling with conceiving again, they would generalise all family planning and start spreading f@lse information.

It would interest you to know that even condom is a type of family planning.

Those tiny daily pills you take to stop pregnancy is a type of family planning.

Calculating your calendar/cycle and monitoring your body to know your safe and danger period is a type of family planning.

Pull out game/withdrawal method is still a type of family planning.

I can go on and on in listing them, including permanent ones for women that have finished giving birth.

Come out of your ignorance and learn peaceful ways to avoid unprepared pregnancy 🤰

Stop tagging your stubbornness and closed mind towards good knowledge “the will of God” when you finally born more than you can train🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️.

You willed it yourself by rejecting wisdom 🤷🏽‍♀️

Some of those women that say that their husbands don't want them to do family planning on a low key don't want to do family planning themselves too. Some are simply listening to what people say about family planning and hiding under "my husband said no family planning" If not, tell me why you can't go for family planning that is done with small money and remove it when you want to conceive again? Every month prayers to see your period 🤦🏽 Una no like peace of mind nii?🤷🏽

Until you get to that level where you’re more scared of pregnancy than what people say about family planning, you may never have the courage to find a suitable family planning for yourself. People said that family planning is this and that 🤦🏾‍♀️. Have you experienced it yourself? The same people would say when you eventually carry belle with a baby you are still nursing 🤷🏽‍♀️

There is this category of women that approach me with questions like 👇🏽

My husband said that he doesn’t want me to do family planning until i finish giving birth. He wouldn’t use protection either or agree when i tell him that I am not in my free period, what can i do to prevent pregnancy?

Me👇🏽

Who carries the pregnancy until 9 months when it enters? You

Who nurses the baby you already born while carry the unprepared pregnancy? You

Who goes into the labour room to push out baby and cut to bring out baby in the case of CS? You

Whose life is on the line if anything goes wrong from back to back pregnancies? You

But you don’t have any say in regards the method you can use to prevent pregnancy just because your husband said and you are a sl@ve not a wife 🤦🏾‍♀️

If you are happy having your chain around your neck as a sl@ve even when you know how to remove the chain yourself without the master knowing, who am I to advise you?🤷🏽‍♀️

No be me go put asunder for what God has joined together 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️

Since family planning wey no dey show for face no gree you do without your unreasonable husband.

Any man that would say no to protection, no to unsafe period and still no to artificial family planning is UNREASONABLE.

There is a difference between submissive wife and sl@ve.

A sl@ve has no say even in matters that concerns her life.

Kpai from back to back child delivery and see how fast that man would move on 😏

One of the best ways your body communicates to you when you’re on family planning that doesn’t suit you is feeling the worst side effects.

But some of us pay deaf ears to the signs.

Some women don’t even know the possible side effects of the particular family planning they are using.

So, when those side effects come up, they think that they are sickness without knowing that it’s from the family planning they did.

Wisdom means that you know when those side effects become a concern and hence, stop that particular contraceptive.

It could be that you have opted for hormonal contraceptives while non hormonal one suits better or vice versa.

To be honest, if you’re on any artificial family planning that suits your body, it’s absolute peace.

You wouldn’t even remember that you are on family planning.

Zero fear of pregnancy with back to back collect from hubby with peace of mind.

When i tell people that i have been on non hormonal family planning for over 1 year with zero side effects, some argue.

Many family planning has more than 99% reliability in preventing pregnancy and once you get the one that suits you, that’s all.

Don’t stick to the particular type you are using if you know that it doesn’t suit your body.

If yours is not reliable or has failed you before like those using withdrawal method, find a more reliable one.

Don’t get pregnant by mistake.

It’s very draining.

But many of you will never listen, until you born more than you can afford to train.

Then struggle for the rest of your life trying to train them.

What method of family planning are you using?

Any issues so far?

The way single people see married couples like once you get married, you now have free ticket to enjoy s£x🤣🤣🤣. What many don't know is that f£ar of pregnancy still dey for marriage 😁. Plus those little humans (kids) that follow you everywhere you go. Even while they are in their rooms, you go still make sure that they are sleeping before anything 🤣🤣🤣. Qu**ky is hardly for couples with little kids. You would be sneaking like a thi£f in your own house 🤫. Many young couples can relate 😂😂😂

Question i often received from women looking for a particular gender is this 👇🏽

Does Chinese gender selection calendar work?

My answer is usually straightforward,

It’s a mere prediction that is not scientifically proven

It predicts the gender of the baby you would conceive with the woman’s month and year of birth and the month she wishes to conceive.

Because i was keen to finding out the accuracy of the Chinese calendar prediction, i did something😁

The particular month i tracked and conceived my son with scientifically proven gender tracking, i checked that Chinese calendar and it said i was gonna have a baby girl if i conceived that month.

I completed the tracking and conceived on that month and had Somtochukwu my son against the Chinese calendar predicting a baby girl 😂😂😂

Since then, i marked it as sc@m.

I don’t recommend it for anyone looking for a particular gender.

It’s more like a game of luck 😁

Who has used it before.

Try searching it on google and check what it gave to you for the kids you already have and see if the predictions were right 😁

I have a problem with you if as an adult, you can't disagree with people without calling them names 🤷🏽🤷🏽. You need to grow up and learn how to stop going under people's posts to insult others. Thank God for block button 🚶🏽🚶🏽

We have been understanding regarding the cost of sanitary pads for women’s monthly flow.

Of course we know that everything is costly now.

Even though it doesn’t make sense that prices of different pads in the market can’t be considered, as even teenagers use them and it’s basically use and throw away.

The one i wouldn’t block my ears to is the recent trend of using harmful products in pads.

I see complaints regarding such and it’s totally unacceptable.

Can anyone that has experienced anything unfamiliar as a result of a particular brand of sanitary pad let us know please.

If the brand you have been using is good, tell us the name and how long you have used it.

If possible, show us a picture of the brand please.🙏🏽

Let’s protect our health as women.