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Think you have to slash your calories to lose weight?

One of the biggest misconceptions I hear is…“I need to eat as little as possible if I want to lose weight.”

Actually… no.

As a coach, one of the first things I help women understand is how much they actually need to eat, because every woman is different.

Some women need a larger calorie deficit, others do far better with a smaller one that they can actually stick to.

I’d much rather help you lose fat steadily over time than see you slash your calories, feel miserable, lose all your energy and end up back where you started a few weeks later.

My approach has always been about the long game.

✔ Building habits.
✔ Prioritising protein.
✔ Eating wholesome foods.
✔ Enjoying meals you actually like.
✔ Creating something that’s realistic for your life.

Because that’s how results last.

If you’d like help working out what that looks like…DM me COACH.

As your coach I can see your meals, your sleep.

Let me show you what that actually looks like in practice.

I have a client whose sleep tracker shows six hours every night. Six hours. So when she tells me she’s struggling with cravings and low energy mid-week - I already know why. We don’t guess. We look at the data and we fix it together.

I have another client who hit 12,000 steps on a Wednesday. When I showed her what her calorie burn looked like that day compared to her usual days and what that meant for her deficit she was genuinely shocked. Steps aren’t just movement. They’re part of the picture I use to coach her properly.

And I have a client who had a brilliant food day. Really good choices, great protein, on track - right up until the Maltesers layer that evening.
I saw it on her log and my first question wasn’t “why did you eat those” - it was “had you eaten enough that day?”

Because nine times out of ten, the evening snack isn’t the problem. It’s a symptom of something earlier. Maybe she hadn’t had enough protein at lunch. Maybe she needed something to hit that sweet spot without blowing the day. That’s the conversation we had. Not guilt - just understanding because that’s where real change actually comes from.

This is what online coaching with me looks like. Not a plan dropped in your inbox and forgotten about. Me, actually watching your week. Responding to what I see. Adjusting when life gets in the way. Keeping you going when you’d normally give up.

This is online coaching done properly and it’s available to you - wherever you are in the UK.

DM me the word COACH and I’ll walk you through exactly how it works.

You didn’t fail the diet.

I want you to really hear that because the women who come to me aren’t women who lack willpower or discipline or commitment. They’re women who have been given the wrong tools and then blamed themselves when those tools didn’t work.

Here’s what actually happens. You restrict. Your cortisol rises because restriction is a stress signal and your body responds by holding onto fat. You get hungry because you’re not eating enough of the right things. The cravings come. You fall off. The guilt arrives and by Monday you’re starting from scratch again.

That cycle isn’t a character flaw. It’s what happens when the plan doesn’t fit your body, your hormones or your life.

What breaks the cycle isn’t more willpower. It’s visibility being able to actually see what’s happening across your week and it’s accountability - having someone there who catches you before one bad day becomes a bad week.

When I can see your food, your sleep, your steps and your patterns we can respond to what’s actually going on. Not guess. Not start over. Respond.

That’s coaching. That’s what changes things.

DM me the word INSIDE and I’ll show you exactly how my coaching works - the app, the check-ins, what I can see and how we work together.

The women losing 2–3kg a week on injections.

I’m not here to shame anyone’s choices, but as a nurse and a coach, I have to be honest about what I’m seeing because the long-term picture matters.

When you lose weight that fast, you’re not just losing fat. You’re losing muscle and when you lose muscle in midlife the consequences go far beyond how you look.

Your metabolism slows. Your strength drops. Your body composition shifts in ways that are genuinely hard to reverse.

And then there’s the skin. Your body needs time to adapt to a changing shape. Lose two stone slowly and your skin will largely keep up. Lose it in eight weeks and it can’t. That’s not opinion - it’s physiology.

I’ve coached women who have lost significant amounts of weight slowly, consistently, and come out the other side stronger, leaner and without the loose skin they were terrified of because we did it the right way.

1–2 pounds a week feels slow when you’re in it. But in 12 weeks that’s a stone. Done properly. Kept off. With muscle intact and your metabolism working with you.

That’s what I coach. No quick fixes. Real results that actually last.

DM me the word STEADY and let’s talk about what’s possible for you.