ME A TRANS GUY

This is for anyone feeling wobbly about transitioning. Are you thinking of going back to the old you? If you do will you feel worse than now? Is your mental health making you feel worse than usual? When considering to pause transitioning or detransitioning these could be good things to consider. After my mum disowned me for being Trans I considered not transitioning to make her see me. This was a big mistake because it made my mental health nose dive. After a short time I realised that having her in my life would also make my mental health worse so I decided to never let anyone's opinion of my being Trans make me unhappy. If someone doesn't accept the only thing that's ever truly made me happy then I don't want to know them. Starting to transition has lifted my mental health and I feel genuinely happy which I haven't had since I was told I can't be a boy as a child. I now realise that making myself miserable to make others happier with me didn't work. Now I'm working on realizing I'm the most important person in my life and that fully and finally I can be free of the misery of when I wasn't being me. I really hope this for everybody feeling wobbly. 🩷💙🤍

I made this on Shuffle the apps by Pinterest. Feel free to use 🏳️‍⚧️

I've come to a revelation recentley about my being fully Trans Masc. Since I started transitioning I've felt that im not masc enough to be a Trans Guy. I now realise this is silly. You see I finally admitted to myself that I still like fushia and coral colours. I still like some feminine things mostly because they remind me of being a child. I've now accepted that I don't want to look OTT masc like others do. I've finally realised I'm happy as I am without medically transitioning. I love wearing bright colours. I've seen so many Trans Masc people wearing dark colours and I just can't do that. The idea makes me feel uncomfortable. Ive decided I can't medically transition or take Testosterone partially because I'm physically disabled and partially because not looking like myself anymore scares me. I've seen so many Trans people stop looking like themselves and at 48 I don't feel strong enough to join them. The idea of extra body hair makes me feel uncomfortable. I already hate what I have now. I don't have the ability or energy to shave it all off. Finally I feel happier just being the real me. Dressing as myself and looking like a man on the outside has made me happier than I could have ever imagined. I don't think all the worsening disability and stress from operations is worth it. I try to live positively and therefore don't worry about Trans body issues as much as others. There is a place in the world for people who can't or won't medically Transition. Why doesn't matter as long as you're happier knowing you do have a choice and that it doesn't devalue your Transness if you choose to stay in the body you were given at birth. I hope this helps you love to all 🩷💙🤍

I found this on Pinterest I thought it would help some of you. Enjoy! 🏳️‍⚧️

This is so perfect and a great encouragement to everyone following me and in my groups Trans & Disabled 🩷🩵🤍 and Trans & Mental Health 🩷🩵🤍 I mean every word 🩷💙🤍 (Feel free to use x)

Im amazed with Temu Trans laces whatever next 🤩 https://share.temu.com/staZS2caFpA

A little treat wallpaper quote to keep the TRANS PRIDE flowing for all my special followers lots love 🩷💙🤍

THE SHADOW INSIDE The shadow is the man this person's meant to be. The shadow has no briefcase and is free. The man carries this image in his head every day. He wants to set his body free but he thinks he can't do this because hes never felt what freedom is. He's scared to be finally free. As the years go by the man gets sadder and sadder, wishing and hoping to finally be happy. He longs to change his life one day. Then in a dream a bird talks to him. It was a blue beautiful bird. He asked the bird how can I stop being blue and have a beautiful life like you. The bird says can't you see you can be blue and happy like me. You can be beautiful and free. Think about it and in a few days you will realise your blues are what's stopping you becoming who you are meant to be. Then the revelation came. The man thought and thought and decided to be who he was inside. First of all he bought blue items dress, shoes, make up, everything. Then he tried them on. He couldn't believe how he shone. The blue inside became yellow and as bright as the sun. He didnt have family or friends. But when he went outside he suddenly noticed people were attracted to him. You have such a bright light they said. Can I borrow your light. He gave away alot of sunshine that day and never became the blue man again. (Picture borrowed with permission from the group ) Do not use, share or copy the story

My poem called WHY NOT ME? about my Trans journey. Please do not copy, use or share 🏳️‍⚧️