relationship issues and solutions

A working husband comes home to rest. A working wife comes home to start her second shift. The double standard is staggering. While he kicks back and unwinds after a long day, she's expected to jump into caregiver mode, managing household chores, cooking, and family responsibilities.

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𝗛𝗢𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗜𝗦 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗔𝗡 𝗘𝗫𝗖𝗨𝗦𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗔 𝗕𝗢𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗥𝗜𝗔𝗚𝗘!

𝘿𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝘼𝙗𝙗𝙖'𝙨 𝙎𝙤𝙣,

It's good to know that you carry a gigantic anointing and the oil on your head is flowing to the tip of your toes. More grace sir!

Because of the anointing you carry, you have refused to be a romantic husband to your wife. You can't cuddle her, drape your hands around her shoulders, or even hold her hands in public.

Besides these, You don't:
✓play with her,
✓gist with her,
✓tell her you love her REGULARLY (haven't you heard that women are never tired of hearing this?),
✓kiss her,
✓take her out on dates whether regularly or occasionally,
✓treat her like a queen,
✓pamper her,
✓flirt with her,
✓care about her dressing or how she looks,
✓make her feel loved.

You are part of the problems we have in the church, sir. People like you are one of the reasons why most undiscerning sisters run away when God reveals to them that they will marry a pastor. 95% of our sisters don't want to ever marry a pastor.

Sir, who are your mentors? Who are your role models? At least, I need to know where you got those archaic behaviours from. I know Abba is a Loving and Romantic Father because each time I read Song of Solomon, I get His romantic vibes.

Look at our Fathers of faith who are following the footsteps of Abba. See how they treat their wives like the First Ladies that they are. These men have allowed the romantic and loving nature of Abba to flow into them. Their wives never feel starved, neglected, and less than humans.

Daddy Pastor (Reverend, Bishop), please repent! Repentance is not only from sins of adultery, stealing, and the likes. It's also, from 'un-Abbaly' behaviours. Holiness and spirituality are not criteria for having a boring marriage.

Let that woman Abba has given to you wake up daily to thank Him for giving her such a romantic husband like you.

𝗕𝗲𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗮 𝗥𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗛𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲