EBJ Special

May we never be involved with people that will waste our time and take us for granted.

Amen.

Cheers to a new year.

Thank you for 2021.

Let's make 2022 better. Shall we?

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Cross's n**e broke the internet few days ago and no blog owned by a male posted his n**e. No man shared his n**e and talk sh*ts about his d**k or how his future kids would be ashame of him and what does that tell you?
That this part of the world doesn't favour women. As a woman with your coconut head, you have been conditioned and screwed up in such a way that you see another woman as your enemy. A man can do something terrible to you and will earn your forgiveness, but let same gender as you do same thing? You will never forgive.

You have been conditioned to wear your shame as a armour. Be ashame of yourself and everything that will make you happy, why?

Because a man says so. Tiwa's n**e p**n was shared by so many of you, insulting and shaming her.
Now Cross, n**e is on the internet and the whole world is quite. Most men are making excuses for Cross, shockingly some women are too. The narrative is, it was a mistake. Because God, forbids a man wakes up one day and decides to post his n**e.

Somebody shout male
P. R. I. V. I. L. E. G. E.

I remembered when my brother newly brought his pet dog home.

Jimmy, that's the dog's name. Refused to eat or play instead you will find him crying or throwing up whenever you fed him and that was because, he was in a new environment without his parent.

But my brother would have none of it. He was deeply concerned and worried. So one day,
he took Jimmy to the vet's office, presented the symptoms and the veterinarian told my brother that Jimmy had Parvovirus and the treatment would cost 15k with drip and without drip 10k.

My brother came back home, told my sister and she says "That means Jimmy will die, because I cannot cough out 15k".

Just like that without provocation.

I was shocked, so was my brother even insects occupying our house that day without pay were shocked too.

Yes women can go days, weeks, months and even years without the urge for s*x.

Stress might contribute to it, relationship problems (when the one who is suppose to add to your happiness, keep taking it away) or simply loss of s*xual desire which is known in medical terms as hypoactive s*xual desire disorder (HSDD), is the most common form of s*xual dysfunction among women of all ages.

Recent study showed that nearly one-third of women age 18-59 suffers from a lost interest in s*x and it's not all in their heads.

Unlike men's main s*xual complaint, erectile dysfunction, women's biggest s*xual problem is caused by a combination of both mental and physical factors, which aren't likely to be cured by merely popping a pill.

"Women's s*xuality tends to be multifaceted and fairly complicated," says s*x psychologist Sheryl Kingsberg, PhD. "Although we would love to simplify it so we could have the one-two or even a one-punch treatment, it doesn't tend to work that way."

So, the next time you want to get down with your woman in the bedroom and she declines? Your first thought shouldn't be that she's seeing someone else or if she's getting it somewhere else.

Think of ways to ease her stress.

I don't know who needs to hear this but, stop dating basic people.

Who are basic people you ask? Basic people are people that just date you to get something and no, not money, because they might have more than you do.

They are dating you, because of the connections you have, fame or influence and once they get all of that

They throw you under the bus, they are manipulative, rude and don't mind telling the world all of your flaws. Protect your heart, protect your space.

This Is The Cause Of Most Domestic Violence

When a man can't humble a woman in bed, he would try to make-up for his inadequacy by hitting her physically.

There has to be some kind of physical way to show his manliness.

But, what nobody told him, is that the best place to show a woman that you are a man, is in bed. Even if she is the president of the United States, she will tremble before you. Good s*x, makes a woman humble not the one you just climb on top of her, make sounds like one dog that is hungry and come down. Not that one abeg 😠😠

Put her legs on your shoulders, then thrust her deep, hard, slowing, fast whichever works for you both. Be spontaneous, Bend her over, make her do the reserve cowgirl, spooning, Lotus, try standing and if she is only comfortable with missionary, be sure to make her stay on top and guide or just go for the 69 position, but never leave her without or**sm.
I would advise you to pay more attention to your s*x skills not your punching skills.

't Be BoringInTheBedroom😂😂😂

Couple of days ago, I was talking with a friend and he just kept on complaining about his girlfriend, how stiffed and too serious she was and how the relationship wasn't exciting anymore.
He even complained that they haven't even had s*x yet and he was starting to question if she wasn't going to be too serious or stiff on bed(that's a story for another day).
I started laughing and he asked me why I was laughing? I answered him, firstly, a woman's s*xuality shouldn't be determined by how funny, serious or stiff she is, in other word it shouldn't be questioned base on her being too serious or stiffed and its was something he was going to find out when they eventually do it.
What I realized from my friend's complaints is that most men don't really know or understand what had happened to a woman that have or had made her too serious or stiff like most men would say.
Most women that are perceived too serious or stiff are as a result of them going through life hard, not getting to be handed something, but working hard to get it. They work twice as hard than the regular woman. They have become a man because they have come to understand that the world isn't friendly to people especially women and if they don't protect themselves no one else would.
Now what do you do when you as a man find yourself with a woman like this? Firstly, show her you got her by assuring her that if she ever fall, you will be there to catch her. Teach her how to let go of too much seriousness or stiffness because you are here now, make her comfortable with you, let her trust you. Understand her. Be there for her so she won't feel like she still single and start thinking it OK to be stiff or too serious since she has been doing it for long with no one around.
Mould her to be the woman you want her to be.

If there is anyone that knows the need for Closure or understands what closure or getting closure means its me.
What is Closure? Its An event or occurrence that signifies an ending. A feeling of completeness; the experience of an emotional conclusion, usually to a difficult period.
Few years ago I met this sweet guy, he was a gentleman even though our tribes and religion was different he treated me like a princess.
Mmm he was handsome, intelligent, kind respectful, funny, attentive and he has these attributes that I like in man. We had this little ritual and is, no matter how busy we both were, we always make out time to talk to each other everyday. Morning, afternoon and night.
God he was my Ben, if you have seen the movie (The catch) you would understand.
We were perfect for each other or so I thought until one day out of the blue, I just lost someone close to me then. He called, saying he wasn't feeling any of this anymore, telling me how tired he was of the relationship and the normal cliche guys use when they want to break up a relationship, it not you, its me.(Lol)
The worse was he broke up with me over the phone, he didn't even had the decency to do it to my face. I was hurt, Devastated, angry, but somehow I refused to cry. Few months passed, I tried getting into another relationship, but I couldn't really commit to anything because I was still confused, hurt and still didn't understand why something as good as what we had would just be over, with no explanation whatsoever, I couldn't make sense of it or let it go, I wanted answers. Heck I needed it.
One day I was supposed to go to a friend's party, I was on my way already when I asked the cab driver to take me straight to my ex house.
I know some people will say that I was a crazy or creepy ex that didn't know when a relationship is over.
As I got close to his house I was nervous and all these thoughts started running through my mind like I must be insane, what if there was another woman inside with him, what if he wasn't home or what if he ask me to leave? I was scared, but I needed answers, I just had to know if it was my fault, maybe I didn't do something right, maybe I failed as a girlfriend and lover. When he opened the door he was stunned and speechless, he just stood there, with his hand on the door and his mouth wide open. I said hi and smiled after awhile when he had regained himself from the shock of seeing me, he asked me to come inside. He offered me a seat, sat beside me and asked me what I was doing in his house? I said I came to get some closure and until I do, I won't be able to move on. The next thing he said was wow.
............... To Be Continued..............

I am a member of a page which deals with relationships/marriage stuffs and this morning a man was asking all the members of the page to plead on his behalf because his wife is also a member of the page..
When asked what happened? He said he cheated on her, now he has realized he had made the greatest mistake of his life, but she has already packed her things out of the house..
Everyone was begging on his behalf and also telling the man not to cheat again when a woman made this statement -: Madam Cheating is like rain, you can't leave your home because your man cheats cause it rains everywhere. Abeg come back to your house.
Wow what a comparison, she is saying cheating and rain are valuable and also important .. Mmmm me I know rain is valuable and also important to both man and plant, cheating is not and it doesn't always rain everywhere which is correct..

That a woman not a man made that statement really shows how some women today have already made up their mind to expect and give excuses if their husbands cheats on them.
I keep saying this, cheating is cheating nothing beautify it. Simple.

The fact that you as a woman have already told yourself and concluded that all men cheats and it okay if your husband or boyfriend cheats on you, it really disturbing and it does not mean it okay to another woman.. Stop That Mentality biko..

That all men cheats and you have to accept it and be okay with it, is the greatest lie you can ever tell yourself. Stop been OK with it...

Men are the heads, yes no disagreement there
They are entitled to cheat because it like their birthright, no no no and no. Stop making excuses for a cheating man.

Have you ever asked yourself why most men don't or finds it hard to forgive their women if she cheats? Its simple
Men cheat on their women, but they don't want women to cheat on them. Why you may ask? Because they know cheating is wrong, when a man cheats he cheats for s*x but when a woman cheats she cheats for love and affection. She cheats with a guy that can potentially replace her man..