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This is for the ones who show up,
not just in the grand moments,
but in the early mornings,
the long nights,
and the heavy silences in between.

For the ones who learned love by doing,
fixing the broken,
lifting the tired,
carrying what no one saw.

To the fathers by blood,
by heart,
by choice,
who became the safe place,
the steady hand,
the one who stayed,
even when it was hardest.

This is for the ones
who worked two jobs
and still made it to the school play.
The ones who held their tongue
so someone else could speak.
The ones who raised children
who weren’t theirs,
but loved them like they were.

For the tired hands
that built more than homes,
they built people.
For the quiet sacrifices never spoken of,
the pain carried silently
so others wouldn’t have to.

For those who had to love from afar,
who missed birthdays and milestones,
who worked oceans away,
swallowing the ache of distance
just to send something home.
Those who traded presence
for provision,
and still called it love.

To those who taught us how to ride a bike,
or how to stand back up when life knocked
us down.
Who protected us,
provided for us,
believed in us,
even when we couldn’t believe in ourselves.

To the uncles, grandfathers,
stepdads, big brothers,
family friends,
and father figures
who wore the title
without needing it spoken.

This day is for you, too.
For every man who’s ever been a father
in all the ways that matter most.

To every man
who’s ever done the work
of love,of presence,
of showing up,
whether from across the room
or across the world,
without needing a title
to prove it -
Happy Father’s Day!

07/01/2024