YouSeeLogic
YouSeeLogic is a safe education space that is both real and honest about s*x and everything that comes with it. Louis, and University of Michigan at Ann Arbor.
Dr. Uchenna "UC" Ossai is a pelvic health physical therapist, s*x educator, and counselor. She has an affinity for science, informed s*xual communication, comprehensive s*x education, intersectionality, pleasure without shame, dance-offs, and bourbon. She has received her doctoral and post-graduate training from University of Illinois at Chicago, Washington University at St. She is one of three ph
It's Bourbon Talez time ๐ฅ!!
Here's tonight's question: "S3xytime feels good, but I still can't or**sm. Why is that?!
Listen... there are a million reasons why this happens to people. And what makes it even more stressful is we sometimes don't know where to start. Check my thoughts on this juicy issue!
What are your thoughts??
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I'm Dr. Uchenna Ossai, but you can call me UC -- pelvic PT, s3x counselor, bourbon lover; and I help you build your s3xy swagger.
05/28/2026
The gap isn't about bodies; it's about the cultural scripts that shape whose pleasure gets centered.
We talk about the or**sm gap all the time. "The Or**sm Gap! Grrrr! Boooo! Hissss! [I'm throwing quarters!]๐๐ฟ๐๐พ๐๐ฝ๐๐ผ๐๐ป๐
But here's my real question: What has knowing about it actually done for your s*x life? Has it changed anything? Or does it just give us something to be frustrated about?
Because the gap tells us something true about the world we live in. But the person in front of you, like...right now, isn't a statistic. They're a human being with their own experience, their own desires, their own story.
What if we focused there instead? No script. Just presence and genuine curiosity about what the actual person in front of you wants and needs.
That's the s*xy magic.
I want to hear from you. Drop your thoughts below.
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Bodily autonomy isn't just a political conversation โ it lives in the everyday messages we receive about our own bodies. Who gets to define what's beautiful, clean, or desirable? And what does it cost us when we accept those standards without question?
What do you all think about all this??? Drop your thoughts and questions below ๐๐ฟ.
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Don't forget to subscribe to the weekly newsletter "UC's Logic" for more tips, tricks, and discounts [link in bio].
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It's Bourbon Talez time ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ!!!
Friends. Tonight's question is the question of the year! Give a listen: "How do I get a lover as an adult? Something reliable and consistent." I adore this question because it honors a more comprehensive view of relationships.
I felt that this question deserves more time, so it will be on two parts. Part 2 will be aired tomorrow!
I do think a key thing to remember with these types of relationships is to get your mind right about what the relationship is and what it isn't.
What do y'all think???
Don't forget to subscribe to the "UC's Logic" newsletter for more juicy *xytime gossip [Link in Bio]
Performance anxiety doesn't just live in his head. We are ALL out here. ๐
These suggestions โ you've probably heard them before. But try actually putting them into practice. It may surprise you. ๐ฅ
Vol. 5 of UC's Logic just dropped and it is GIVING. Link in bio โ subscribe before you miss another one.
I'm excited about this new development! Hopefully it paves the way for improved access and better care for people navigating PMOS (formerly PCOS).
Sexual Dysfunction is a common challenge with this diagnosis, and it's commonly associated with the symptoms that with it (acne, fertility issues, etc.).
Love this development and hopefully it stirs more momentum for research, innovation, and community access!
Happy Mother's Day and welcome back to Bourbon Talez, y'all!! ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Here's tonight's question, "Been with my partner for 12 years, 3 kids, solid relationship -- but my or**sms keep getting less and less satisfying. Is this life now?"
Now folks. This question is actually quite complex because there are so many things that impact or**sms....
๐ Hormones
๐ Medication
๐ Medical conditions
๐ Work stress
๐ Nutrition/diet
๐ Trump is our president....๐คฎ๐คข๐ค๐ค
And also consider, this is a long term relationship with kids in the mix.
So what I'm presenting to this mama bear are some really quick tips that can help land the or**sm plane or at least help get triage what is needed.
What y'all think?!
Tonight's Whiskey: rye
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Listen up folks. We all know that the cl****is is the queen of pleasure. But the cl****is is not a one trick pony.
We all like what we like... and that is fabulous. But research had shown that engaging your cl****is in multiple different ways helps to improve s*xual satisfaction and or**sms.
If you have the bandwidth, try something new tonight...a different l**e, circling vs. Up/down, change your breath, a little dirty talk... explore and follow your curiosity and freaky sneaky๐๐.
Just a little UC logic.
05/08/2026
Knowing the systems that inform your s3xuality and s3xual health is an act of self-care and self-love. It gives us insight into all aspects of our health โ and everything that informs our s*xy.
A few weeks ago on Bourbon Talez, I said that resistance and social justice are the ultimate s3x toy. I meant that.
And this week โ Tennessee reminded us why.
Here's where we pause and think about how we move forward.
Providers โ are we going to ignore this aspect of our patients when they walk into the treatment room? Just go on like business as usual?
And as a patient myself โ I know I'm moving differently. Curating my community. My healthcare providers. My joy. Coming into my power.
One city council meeting. One vote. One conversation. One or**sm at a time.
Just a little UC Logic. Happy Friday, loves!
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I mean. Do we really need to discuss??
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Times like these...
Pick your joy.
Take your space.
Take care of yourself.
Take care of your community.
Speak your truth.
And beat the hell out of a piรฑata!
Vent your frustrations below, darlings.
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