Nk Sylvia

Someone came under this my post and wrote this👇.

Right from the time that i shared the delivery of my baby boy and how i planned the gender, too many people keep misunderstanding my posts.

When i gave birth to my son i got questions like;
*How do you feel having a different gender ?
*What's your husband's reaction when you had your boy?
*why is it that the joy you feel when you get a boy after having girls is quiet different from the joy you feel when you get a girl after having boys?..

The joy that you will feel when you get a boy after having girls is different compared to when you get a girl after having boys. The reason for me is this, nobody tells boy moms that their husbands are going to marry another woman to birth a girl for them. Your fellow women are the ones that will directly and indirectly "muck, gussip and laugh" at you for having only girls and when they see another woman having all boys they don't give same reaction rather they call them mummy boys/kings.

The same women that laughed at you for having all girls, and constantly reminds you how your husband is going to marry another woman to birth a boy child all in the name of who is going to carry on the father's name, are same women that will get "angry and painned" when you re rejoicing too much for a prayer answered.

Yes every child is a blessing and i will be the last person to pick or choose among my children because i know the "muckery" that i went through before i even had one.

I am rejoicing not because i gave birth to what anybody has ever given birth to, my joy and gratitude is coming from that feeling you get "when you get what you prayed for". And what made it to be sweeter (sweet pepper 🤪)is the fact that some set of people thought they re your God to decide your blessing.

If you have not watched the video of how i conceived my boy after three girls, kindly scroll down to my page you will see the videos it's over three months i posted it..

Shalom ✌️.
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