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We’ve spent years talking about intimacy in the bedroom, but intimacy doesn’t start in the bedroom.

First, you have to create space for it to exist in your life. Deep connection and meaningful intimacy thrive when we feel rested, grounded, emotionally present, and connected to ourselves. The way we sleep, regulate our nervous systems, slow down, and reconnect with our bodies impacts the intimacy we experience with others. Because intimacy depends on more than attraction. It needs presence, energy, safety, softness, and connection.

Our newest evening essential is part of a bigger conversation around intimate wellness, better evenings, and creating rituals that help us feel more connected to ourselves and each other.

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Our Massage Butter is all organic and made with your body in mind 🥥🧈

Wellness and intimacy were never meant to be separate conversations.

We often think intimacy begins in the bedroom, but so much of it starts before that. It starts with how regulated our nervous system feels, our energy, how rested we are and within that how present we’re able to be with ourselves and each other.

Most of our lives keep us overstimulated all day long. We're always moving so fast and we're in a hurry, work long hours, scroll constantly. Then our sleep suffers and we wonder why we don’t feel connected. You can't fathom how anyone finds time for intimacy in the chaos.

When we are exhausted and stressed we don’t sleep or rest efficiently. That poor sleep and lack of rest, while also being stressed, affects intimacy. Because intimacy depends on emotional connection, energy, patience, softness, presence, and feeling safe enough in the body to slow down.

That’s why we’ve become so interested in the relationship between sleep, wellness, connection and our intimate lives. They all work together.

Better sleep supports overall wellbeing, nervous system regulation, emotional connection, energy, and presence...all of the things intimacy depends on most.

Sleep is part of intimacy.

Our newest evening essential that supports your sleep and intimate life is coming soon. ☁️

Sunday looks like this, because Saturday was spent on a peaceful evening routine...

You went for a sunset walk, took a hot lavender bath, took your evening aminos, read your new novel, basked in front of your red light, dimmed the lights early, rubbed magnesium spray into your stomach, went to bed early with your mouth tape on and the cool air coming in the window. ⏾ ☁️

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Cute aggression for our Mini Massage Butter...you just want to squeeze her...she's so cute in a smaller package 🖤

We believe in clean products that are made with love and for love. Your body will thank you for paying attention to what it needs. 🥥

The blanket of your dreams ☁️

In a luxurious Noisette color, with a chocolatey fleece and a milky velvet. Paired with our Massage Butter, this waterproof Intimate Blanket becomes the only throw you need on the end of your bed.

Our Massage Butter is not just another product that you use in the bedroom. It changes how you energetically approach your relationship. It requires you to be intentional about your intimate connection. That intentionality is what strengthens your bond and builds deeper connection between you and your partner.

Imagine you come home from work after a long day, you take a nice shower, put on some comfy clothes, and lay down to receive a gentle massage from your partner. Slipping into a state of total relaxation. You get to talk, connect, listen to music, and just enjoy being with one another. Giving each other this opportunity to relax is more powerful than you might think.

A good massage lowers stress, releases muscle tension, reconnects you to your body, and creates that full mind-body exhale most of us are craving by the end of the day.
But sometimes the point of massage isn’t even stress relief. Sometimes the point is simply to touch and be touched and connect with your partner.

If you don't feel like an expert at giving a massage, we got you. we put together some of Megan's top tips and techniques on giving an incredible at-home massage. It's a skill anyone can learn.

Share this post with your partner and try these 7 massage techniques for a night of intimate touch and connection.

Be sure to read the full article for more tips on how to set the mood and give an at-home massage like the pros.