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Due to metastatic breast cancer , I have been out of work since Aug 2019
Please take a moment ! The bigger picture of my point is in there
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As I see moms of toddlers, I see how easy these babies pick up words & phrases. Some hard not to laugh at.
Let’s as yourself:
1. Does this benifit my child or will it hurt them ?
2. How did they hear that? Most don’t realize what your car road rage , music, private phone calls (you think they can’t hear!) the argument with a friend or lover. Again you don’t realize!
3. This one hits home for me: degrading yourself, even if just in the mirror. Being obsessed about weight & looks to a damaging level. Your child will eventually have traits (pay attention to that! Talk about it).
4. I believe in open chats, but some kids don’t know jokes yet, so many bypass it thinking they don’t get it..”No harm will come”, think again! Words are repeated!
5. Have chats with family about boundaries and words. Have chats to kids early how words have power
6. As we deal with social media, (if you can avoid it) but if not, monitor it . Teen su***de is high (and keeps getting younger). Talk to them about safety, talk to them about bullying , because the schools (although they say they are no tolerance - I have yet to see that). It’s up to us as the parents to teach these things. Where else would they learn about bullying? Its those funny comments, it’s the road rage anger, it’s the fights you have in front of a child. Those babies are everywhere! They are sneaky-sneaks, they are nosey, they want to learn & be a big boy or girl. If they come to you about something, no matter how hard or much it hurts, believe in them!!! Don’t allow your babies to be victims of assult or domestic violence alone, because your shell shock. You need to allow them to heal, no matter how hard it is.
Put your family first. Keep politics out of it, keep the hate part out of it, you are free to vote and free of speech but it’s going way too far when things are about hate. I’d you can’t control your anger for your kids sake, you are part of the problem! Let’s all learn and do better. accept all people with open minds and loving hearts. Let go of the past that had crippled the compassion. Let’s be unified in what’s right and what it means to truly love. Words have power!! They can destroy!! Sticks and stones worked before the internet, now it’s past the point of copy cat remarks. It’s hateful rage to end a young persons life. So many have passed on…where does the line stop? Forgive the bullies? Blame the victim, a young kid doin stupid s**t? Reflect on why you feel the way you do to gain more understanding. Not everyone has had the same upbringing, and compassion is no longer an emotion. Thinking before you speak, (that also is a hard one for myself, but keep trying). Also I hear if someone else has a problem of it doesn’t effect you, it’s not your problem, right? Then why speak on it? Why gossip on it? Eventually there will be a time you are affected: our economy, mental illness, addiction. No one is free of burden. Karma is real! I hope you can reflect on yourself & have better out look on life , seek graditude on all that is in your life , and if you feel you want to argue , debate or defend something (when the internet is full of those who want to troll) why stress yourself out with those you don’t see daily? I suggest if you have an issue, send a letter to governor, mayor , senator , congressman , be involved in community , help another , words have an impact but some are empty with out action . We all sin
Gluttony , vanity , lust , greed ,sloth. Although some pride is good many over do it ,wrath ! Envy , did you notice all them? You can’t deny you are a sinner and no one sin is greater than another, humble your self please. I thank you for taking the time to read, I hope I made my messge clear. I hope to inspire others into letting the hate go in life so our kids have a chance.❤️🙏🏻💪🏽🫵🏼💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
08/16/2024
My friend Kaitlin Clark has set up this prayer
Please join at 730 am tommrow
The more the better
My prayer group is gunna pray tomorrow when we have your healing meeting!
Father God we come before your throne and we humbly place Lizzy at your feet Lord God your word says is there anything too hard for me and we say absolutely not you are the God of more than enough you are the great I am and through you all things are possible so Lord God, we humbly come in the name of Jesus for wholeness and health through the resurrection. Blood of Christ Jesus to be flowing all through Lizzy‘s body killing all of the cancer cells in the name of Jesus, the name that is above every name that everything has to bow too. We give you honor and glory and praise. for healing her bones and getting rid of all the extra fluid around her lungs and that you would put Hedges and Hedges of protection from her insides to her sides and that she would feel your healing touch in Jesus name amen.
03/28/2024
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03/28/2024